Friday, August 30, 2013

What? PDA? What is that?

We are getting closer and closer to Hubby's Graduation Day. I am really excited about it.  I have been reading a lot about PDA (or Public Display of Affection). I decided to do a research about what it means and the rules. 

I think that the natural reaction after a deployment or training would be to run up to your spouse and give them a big kiss and lots of hugs. Uh-uh. If they’re in uniform, they can get penalties for it. I have discovered that there are quite a few etiquette rules when a service member is in uniform that we must know.

  • Soldiers must project a military image that leaves no doubt that they live by a common military standard and are responsible to military order and discipline. This is why PDA is not accepted except in certain situations. For instance, moderate kissing and hugging is acceptable when there’s a homecoming or deployment.

  • Service members are not allowed to keep their hands in their pockets. Soldiers will ensure that articles carried in pockets do not protrude from the pocket or present a bulky appearance.

  • Your spouse is required to keep his or her right hand empty in order to salute at any time. When you are walking somewhere with your spouse, be sure to walk on their left side.

  • Soldiers will not wear keys, key chains, or electronic devices on the uniform when the commander determines such wear is inappropriate, such as in formation, or during parades or ceremonies.

  • Service members are not supposed to eat or drink anything while they are walking.

  • Military personnel are not allowed to hold hands while in uniform. Some companies allow locking elbows with your spouse as an acceptable practice.

  • The wear of military headgear is not required while in or on a privately owned vehicle (POV) or on public transportation (such as a subway, train, plane or bus).

  • Some may be considered unprofessional for your spouse to chew gum in uniform.

  • Never wear your spouse’s uniform. It can be considered disrespectful.

I think that these rules will vary from military branch and your location. Be sure to check with your specific command to determine your installation’s rules.


If you are as new as me in this world, we have a lot to learn. If you know all these rules like the palm of your hand, do you know any other rules to share?

Noris

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