Saturday, August 31, 2013

10 Distant Love Quotes Series - Part One

I am very excited to present my first series of posts: Distant Love Quotes!!! Each Saturday I will share 10 Distant Love Quotes. You can add them to your letters, start your own quotes collection,  or simply, read them when you are depressed and need some inspiration to cry. Me, the girl that never ever cried, now cries for everything, even tv ads. Reading some of these made me cry and I feels... relaxed. 


Photo: ©Sony Pictures

  1. "It’s not enough that we do our best; sometimes we have to do what is required."
  2. "Distance means so little when someone means so much."
  3. "Contrary to what the cynics say distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing love when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."
  4. "Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle…rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be."
  5. "You’re my love and my heart’s dream, never did I think I could feel this way, you’re my heart’s hope and sense of being."
  6. "I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh. But I never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry. I guess I’m just missing the old times…miss you."
  7. "So close your eyes and sleep to dream. I’m by your side, no words to speak. We’ll set our course and make it through. No matter how far you go, my heart remains with you."
  8. "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."
  9. "You are far away, but yet your love remains; I can feel it all around. It embraces me and holds me tight, night after night."
  10. "I wish that I could hold you now…I wish that I could touch you now…I wish that I could talk to you…and be with you somehow."
     Which is your favorite love quote?
Noris

Friday, August 30, 2013

What? PDA? What is that?

We are getting closer and closer to Hubby's Graduation Day. I am really excited about it.  I have been reading a lot about PDA (or Public Display of Affection). I decided to do a research about what it means and the rules. 

I think that the natural reaction after a deployment or training would be to run up to your spouse and give them a big kiss and lots of hugs. Uh-uh. If they’re in uniform, they can get penalties for it. I have discovered that there are quite a few etiquette rules when a service member is in uniform that we must know.

  • Soldiers must project a military image that leaves no doubt that they live by a common military standard and are responsible to military order and discipline. This is why PDA is not accepted except in certain situations. For instance, moderate kissing and hugging is acceptable when there’s a homecoming or deployment.

  • Service members are not allowed to keep their hands in their pockets. Soldiers will ensure that articles carried in pockets do not protrude from the pocket or present a bulky appearance.

  • Your spouse is required to keep his or her right hand empty in order to salute at any time. When you are walking somewhere with your spouse, be sure to walk on their left side.

  • Soldiers will not wear keys, key chains, or electronic devices on the uniform when the commander determines such wear is inappropriate, such as in formation, or during parades or ceremonies.

  • Service members are not supposed to eat or drink anything while they are walking.

  • Military personnel are not allowed to hold hands while in uniform. Some companies allow locking elbows with your spouse as an acceptable practice.

  • The wear of military headgear is not required while in or on a privately owned vehicle (POV) or on public transportation (such as a subway, train, plane or bus).

  • Some may be considered unprofessional for your spouse to chew gum in uniform.

  • Never wear your spouse’s uniform. It can be considered disrespectful.

I think that these rules will vary from military branch and your location. Be sure to check with your specific command to determine your installation’s rules.


If you are as new as me in this world, we have a lot to learn. If you know all these rules like the palm of your hand, do you know any other rules to share?

Noris

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Thank you, Soldier! Free printable cards

Recently, I started writing to SIT's that for  some reason are not receiving or receiving very few letters from their families or friends. I think that Basic Training or deployments are very lonely places and I can not understand why some people do not show support.

I recently opened an Etsy shop named Only Printables. I design printable posters and tshirts. I am designing products specially for the military families. With this in mind, I designed two cards that I want to share with you today. Just, click on the image and download it. Print them and write a Soldier. Just thank him for what he or she is doing and sacrificing for us. I am sure that it will make them smile.




Noris

Monday, August 26, 2013

Military Monday at Old Navy!!

I have always love the Old Navy! In the past, before being an Army Wife, I used to see signs of  Military Discount of 10% on the 1st-4th of every month but of course, I did not qualify to receive it. 

The day I got my Military Id,  I went to the mall and I had to go to Old Navy, of course!! It is one of my favorite stores. Guess what? It was a Monday.  And what happens on Mondays?

Now, Old Navy offers a Military Discount of 10% EVERY Monday!



You just have to show your Military ID card and you will get your discount. So, today is Monday. Go ahead and take advantage of the offer while it lasts.  


Noris

PD: I have not received any compensation for this post. This is only a 
review of a product I really liked.

Sunday, August 25, 2013

Why writing is important during deployment or trainings?

Today, I am really happy! We got more letters! Before my husband left, we promised each other that we would write everyday. If I am honest, I thought that I would keep my promise but he wouldn't simply because he would be tired or he wouldn't have the time. But, we've been both receiving letters at least three times a week.

Mantaining a relationship with someone is hard. When you can't see them or call them when you want or need to say something, it is even harder. That is why I believe that writing everyday will help you keep you sane and the relationship alive. 

When your Soldier or SIT (Soldier in Training) is far away, they need to know about you and your family. They want to know that you are doing OK. They need that to focus on the job or training that they are doing. 

When you are the spouse left at home, you will certainly become overwhelmed. You will go through a lot of things that probably you don't want to tell because they might worry your other half. I think that, although you shouldn't be telling every single thing that goes wrong, they should know about the stuff that worry you the most.

The week that my husband left, my car broke, the roof started leaking, my daughter got sick and the list goes on. I decided not to tell him. The next week, when the mechanic said that the damage was about $2500, I was very overwhelmed. I told him the problem and what was I was doing to fix it. When I got his response, I was very happy and cried. He said that he was sorry for not being able to help but not to worry. He said he trusted me and my decisions. I instantly felt stronger.

I really believe that writing is keeping our relationship alive. I look forward to seeing the mailman everyday and see if he has something for us. It definitely makes us smile. I just imagine him having the exact same emotions.

Why do you like to write?


Noris  

Friday, August 23, 2013

Hi! I am a new Army Wife!

Hello!

My name is Noris and I want to say hi! I have been married for 7 1/2 years but I just became an official Army Wife almost a month ago. My husband is currently at his Basic Training and these past weeks have been quite...interesting.

I am homeschooling mom of a wonderful 4 year old girl that I will call Miss A. She is a very active, smart and fun girl that makes my life very hectic and busy.

I work part time as a kids yoga instructor and I love my kids. They help me find ground and inner peace in my very busy schedule.

I decided to start this blog to write a little about my adventures in the Army, homeschooling, crafting, running and my journey towards a simpler life.

Noris